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Men and Sex Toys. The taboo that needs to end.

Is sexuality still a taboo subject? Thanks to talking about sex freely and openly, we have learnt and advanced a lot. We know now that we should not feel guilty for wanting to enjoy our sexuality, most people are able to talk more freely about their preferences and not feel judged for it. Although there is still a long way to go, we shouldn’t forget all that we have achieved.

The most common misconception is that toys are a substitute for sex and not a complement. In the last few years we have been able to know what this wonderful world has to offer us and little by little it’s more common to see accounts on the internet divulging information or even women sharing their preferences either alone or as a couple, but what about men?

Unfortunately, nowadays it is still believed that those men who use masturbators are because they don’t have satisfactory sexual relations or that they don’t have sex with another person, why is that? Why is it well seen that a woman uses toys with herself and for a man it’s a representation of loneliness?

Masturbation is one of the best forms of self-awareness, both of pleasure and of oneself, it increases sexual desire, releases stress and helps sexual relations to be healthier as it’s a great ally when it comes to gaining confidence and being able to talk about preferences. If that experience can be taken to another level and not be monotonous, why label it as something negative? Since when is breaking the routine in a healthy way something that is not monotonous?

According to a global study conducted by Arcwave, 56% of men surveyed stated that they had never used sex toys, either alone or with a partner. Women, on the other hand, had a percentage of 37%. The same study explained that “For women, masturbation has always been recommended as a means to ‘cure’ mental illness. For men, on the other hand, masturbation has been seen as a source of psychological problems. Today, it’s common in sex therapy for women to be advised to masturbate in order to increase pleasure and discover their own bodies. In the case of men, this type of advice is rare”.

As we have seen from this study, male masturbation is still linked to an obsession rather than a form of self-love. The reality is that male masturbation can be very helpful in solving many problems such as premature ejaculation.

The use of toys simply explores a world of different sensations, gaining confidence and self-knowledge.

Let us help you find the ringt one fot you:

For beginners, we recommend starting step by step.

  • Do you know the famous Tenga eggs? Then take it to a new level with Spinner, a spiral of emotions and pleasure so that masturbation makes you discover a world full of possibilities.
  • Spinjob by Jamyjob is a male masturbator with 360º rotation. Thanks to its textured interior, its high-tech rotation and its 3 speeds, it perfectly simulates oral sex.

If you are one of those who already know about it or want to start big we have for you our top three products that will blow your mind.

  • We continue with Tenga and now we present the Tenga FlipOrb Rush Male Masturbator. With a unique design, easy to use and easy to clean. A high-level masturbator with whom you will have hours of fun guaranteed.
  • Manta is Designed for everyone, a real him and her pleasure toy. Use it during intercourse, turning his penis into a vibrator, as a Blow Job tool it will deliver stronger orgasms with a deep throat feeling or use it solo and play it delivers focused stroking sensations.
  • Last but not least. The incredible Arcwave Ion. One of the favourites and there is no doubt why. The pulsating air waves stimulate the pleasure receptors located in the frenulum, you will feel orgasms on another level.

Break with the established, inform yourself and gain in stimulation. Get to know yourself with the best sex toys the market has to offer, you won’t be left indifferent. What do you have to lose?